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“I don’t know if I could be in a serious relationship or love someone that did _________” It is likely to be something really dumb.
You might be vulnerable simply because you are already emotionally invested and you really don’t want to have to start over again or admit that you’ve moved too fast or made an error in judgement.
What I can assure you of is that it’s highly likely that whatever they’re targeting about you is really about them.
They’re chopping at you because they’ve been chopped at for the same thing, or they’re chopping at you because on some level they envy you but rather than assert these qualities in themselves, they’d rather knock them out of you.
When you apologise for being and doing things that another person would think they were on crack to do the same, after the relationship ends, it can be shocking to face that you let someone like the Chopper tell you who you are.
When one reader who is highly successful, owns her own home, lots of friends, busy life, found herself being chopped down by an unemployed man who dodges his taxes, was living in her home rent free, was hardly Mr Popularity and didn’t have much going on his life, I was opened mouthed at the catalogue of verbal and emotional abuse that he’d thrown at her. Yet she is still turning over all of the crap that he said.
It came out of left field and was completely untrue. ” and you’re thinking What the hell are they talking about? I can feel it.” Eventually it’s likely to be them cheating on you.